The ability to communicate easily and naturally, to be an interesting conversationalist can be very helpful in life. A charming, cheerful person makes you want to meet with him and establish a more serious relationship.
You will need
- - collections of jokes and funny stories;
- - good literature.
Instruction manual
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People are drawn to cheerful optimists who can always support with a joke and a life-affirming story. Therefore, so that your interlocutors do not get bored during a conversation with you, charge people with positive emotions, they are much more pleasant than negative ones.
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To communicate at ease and easily, you need to enrich your vocabulary. To do this, read more good books by recognized classics and contemporary authors. Pay special attention to small works, because it is the art of the story that will help you interest the interlocutors.
3
Forget about your complexes and fear of communication. Most often, a person greatly exaggerates the existing (or mythical) flaws. Tell yourself: "I am a strong, interesting personality, trendsetter and soul of society!" If you believe this, you can convince others of this as well.
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Take a closer look at yourself, highlight all of your most attractive features. Experiment with fashionable clothes and find your own individual style, because gray is boring and uninteresting. Smile and laugh more often, a good mood is contagious to others and will cause you good feelings.
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Develop your horizons, take an interest in new topics, keep abreast of cultural and political events. To keep up the conversation, you should be easy to navigate in the modern world.
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Be kinder to the people around you, listen carefully to their stories to help with advice and participation. A person who not only speaks, but also listens to the interlocutor, will never seem boring and boring.
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Remember what topics are interesting to this or that person, next time be sure to resume the conversation by studying this issue.
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Humor will help you out in any situation and help you quickly find a common language with a new interlocutor. Read collections of jokes and funny events from life. Remember the stories you like, fill them with awkward pauses in the conversation.
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