Each person is unique, but not everyone can recognize the presence of features in another. People are used to comparing each other, condemning and blaming different things. But if you learn to accept others, if you respect the opinions and individualities of others, life will become much easier.
Instruction manual
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Each person has different sides: both good and bad. First look at yourself, because there is something to be proud of, and some qualities are very controversial. Similarly, in every other person, there is something beautiful and good, but there is something not very pleasant. And only a combination of all these properties makes each one unique. If you understand this point of view, believe in it, then it will be easier to communicate with people.
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Children are born in different places, study in very dissimilar conditions, and also accumulate their experience. Someone has more, someone less. This forms different views. Someone understands life, relationships, someone likes technology, not psychology. And no one can be a professional in all areas. Therefore, faced with ignorance, do not blame, but remember that in some areas you are not ass. Just let the person go astray. Sometimes you need to enter into a dispute to prove a mistake, and sometimes you can just watch. If someone does not have certain knowledge, then he simply did not need them. Take it for granted, don't get annoyed.
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People in different ways feel joy, suffer suffering. For some, the worst is the pain of relatives, for others, the loss of money. There are no common values for each, they are individual. Therefore, do not blame people if they do not do what you think is right. They have their own priorities, their desires, they are guided by them. Try to understand why they do this, analyze the behavior, but do not give ratings. Everyone lives according to their own principles, and it is very difficult to fix something in the other.
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Start looking at people's lives as if from a distance. Discover different views, different types of behavior and reactions. In this case, do not interfere, do not try to understand what is right and what is not. Just know that this is the opinion of another, for him it is optimal. This is a very exciting process, enter it, and you will always be as if out of situations. Do not lose this position in moments of communication, just watch what happens. Do not enter into disputes, do not prove your case, let the person be any.
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Search in each event, in each action, different sides. In good deeds, there is always room for something negative, and in bad there is always good. In the life of any person, everything is interconnected, and it is sometimes difficult to understand what is good and what is not. Indeed, even character traits are shown each time by a different side, for example, sometimes stubbornness is bad, and sometimes it is the ability to act in one's own way, to prove the whole world the right thing and achieve a result. Understanding the duality of what is happening, you will become more tolerant, and some features of other people will only cause a smile, not negative experiences.