A person is constantly faced with the need to make one or another choice. This situation accompanies him literally at every step: in the store, when you need to decide what and how much to buy, at work, in family life. Well, if we are talking about some minor problem, which does not entail serious consequences in case of an error. Well, what if the question is really important? If the price of an erroneous decision can be high? Some people in such a situation may be confused, delay with the decision. How to act?
Instruction manual
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First of all, inspire yourself that from the fact that you are avoiding the solution under various pretexts, you are pulling time - the problem will not disappear. You still have to make a decision, it’s better to do it sooner rather than later.
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Of course, "earlier" does not mean "hastily." Think it over carefully. If there are several options for solving a particular issue, problem, carefully consider them without missing a single one. Try to objectively analyze both the pros and cons of each option, and choose the most optimal of them.
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If the question is really complicated, especially if you yourself feel and acknowledge that you do not have enough knowledge or information to make a decision, consult a specialist whose opinion you can trust. In general, if possible, in such situations, you should consult knowledgeable people. According to popular wisdom, "one head is good, and two is better."
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Fluctuations, delays in decision-making are mainly characteristic of shy, impressionable people. Even if you are absolutely sure that you are right, and you still subconsciously worry about the thought: “what if I’m wrong?”, Be courageous and make a decision. You also hesitate because you are very afraid of falling into a ridiculous, absurd position because of a mistake. Such people would do well to engage in self-hypnosis. These methods are relatively simple, but can quickly lead to good results.
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In the same situation when a decision needs to be taken as quickly as possible (for example, in the case of a large-scale accident, natural disaster and similar situations that threaten the life and health of people), hesitation and indecision are simply unacceptable. You need to overcome your doubts with an argument: the harm from a possible mistake and its consequences will in any case be lower than from inaction.