Quite often, a person finds excuses for his failures in the form of improper upbringing, intrigues of others, instability in society or hatred of the boss. A more correct line of behavior is taking responsibility for one’s successes and failures. In determining the formation of responsibility for one’s life, exclusively internal changes are considered.
Instruction manual
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Recognize that everything that happens in your life depends on you, your past actions and thoughts. The very first internal change should be the realization that there are no accidents in the world, nothing happens just like that. This inner awareness will lead to the fact that you will try to live every day of your life for a specific purpose, benefit for others, with joy, kindness and love in your heart.
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Do not blame someone or something for your own failures, because everything in life happens only because of your thoughts and actions. When problems, failures, mistakes happen, you should not blame yourself either. At least, long and painfully. All people learn, develop, and making mistakes is much easier. It is the big setbacks that give you the incentive for further big victories. Therefore, treat every unpleasant moment as an experience conducive to your development. At the same time, do not forget to thank others for their help, tips, advice or perfectly-formed conditions, as well as to thank life itself for its charms, joys and endless lessons.
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Also accept the thought that no one in the world owes anything to anyone. Neither do you owe anything to anyone, nor do you owe anything to anyone. If someone let you down, think, maybe you relied too much on this person, trusted him too much and did not prepare an option in reserve? So only yourself is to blame. Each person, first of all, will take care of his own benefit and his interests, and your interests are exclusively your problem. If you want to help others - help, but do not expect that you will immediately be gifted with all kinds of benefits from all sides. Although, of course, most often it turns out that way, but a positive world outlook is already working here.
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Remember that justice in the world, as everyone supposedly objectively imagines it, is not and cannot be. This is an abstract concept that helps one people control others, keep them at bay. In this way, responsibility is transferred to certain third parties who decide whether this or that act is fair or not. Control must be exercised from within, because for that reason, each person is given a conscience. Only you yourself decide how to use your conscience, how to negotiate with her, listen to her or not.
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Recognize the fact that other people have their own opinions, which do not always coincide with yours, their thoughts, their worldview and their life path. Therefore, do not judge someone, do not try to impose your point of view, argue or advise without permission. Others have their own life experience, according to which they act in one way or another, and it is not for you to judge what choice they should make. Another person, perhaps, is also trying to take responsibility for his actions and thoughts, so do not bother him in this.