Sociability is a very important criterion for a modern person, which contributes not only to the emergence of a huge number of friends and acquaintances, but also to career advancement. Inability to speak, to behave in society with another person is a sign that you are not confident enough. Therefore, first you need to put an end to shyness and awkwardness and concentrate on the emotions that you experience when communicating with your interlocutor. They should not cause discomfort, on the contrary, you should experience only pleasant feelings.
1. Do not try to avoid contact with other people.
If you run away from conversations, behave embarrassingly at a meeting, then you need to think about your behavior. There is nothing wrong with a conversation with a new person or with an old acquaintance. Do not lock yourself. Listen to the interlocutor, share your stories and impressions.
2. Do not walk with a stone face, smile.
It is always nice to see when the interlocutor shows positive emotions, this makes the conversation more open and sincere. Do not be too serious. Make grimaces, laugh more, it will only benefit.
3. Do not wait until someone comes up to meet you.
If you like a person, do not be afraid, take the initiative. Start with the simple “Hello, what's your name?” And then just continue the conversation. Talk about what interests you, but don’t talk about too narrow things, as your interlocutor may become bored.
4. Speak spontaneously.
No need to think up topics of conversation all night. In real life, it will not look very natural. Behave as if talking to your sister or brother. Do not make yourself like an inaccessible idol.
5. Do not forget about such important elements as hugs, shaking hands.
It always improves contact between people and makes communication more lively. Show your feelings, open from the best side. Only in this way will you be able to imagine yourself as the person who you really are.