The correct attitude to life lessons is the key to inner strength and success of a person. It is wrong to see only negative aspects in failures. They teach the individual a lot and contribute to his growth.
Instruction manual
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To learn how to draw conclusions from events that happen to you, you need to work on yourself. It is important to realize that it is failure that best tempers your character. Anyone who did not try to achieve anything, but left things to chance, did not set goals, but went with the flow, did not comprehend the taste of failure, because he did not know what the ideal result should be, may be upset at some point - for any nonsense and break. Life lessons temper the character of a person, make them stronger and wiser.
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Analyze the situation you are in. Try to understand what caused the situation. It is important to show your logical thinking abilities. It is important, firstly, to adjust your behavior for the future. To do this, determine what you did not do what could be done better. Secondly, you need to understand what makes the situation unfavorable for you in order to avoid such circumstances in the future.
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Learn not only from your own mistakes, but also from mistakes of other people. Listen to others when they share their experiences with you. Consider the information about the position in which they fell and how they behaved. Read more. Opt for novels by world classics. Such books often tell about the fate of various people. And even if they can be completely fictional characters, the author’s view of the problem can be very useful for you.
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Think about the stereotypes and patterns of behavior in your life. Perhaps there is some kind of recurring scenario of your mistakes, because of which you cannot achieve something. It is important to realize that you are not only the main character of your own story, but also its author at the same time. Rewrite the book of your life so that it becomes more cheerful, optimistic. At the same time, you will see what you should do differently, on which side of life you should carry out thorough work.
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Remember that optimism is a good quality, but isolation from reality can be fatal to humans. It is one thing if you work on yourself, with your goals, perceive information coming from outside, adjust the initial plan based on new circumstances, and at the same time believe in future success, and it’s quite another when a person just blindly hopes for the best outcome, without applying with this special effort and acting spontaneously, even recklessly. Be a cheerful person, but stay realistic.