Life in the family, in the circle of friends, among university comrades, in society always implies the presence of a number of people who, with their views on life, morality, morality, or simply order in the apartment, are so strikingly different from us. Sometimes lack of culture, shamelessness, rudeness and rudeness overlook the coast, and you have to look for justice for those who are not going to admit that there are other people in the world besides them.
Instruction manual
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Before putting someone in their place, you need to be filled with self-confidence. It often turns out that a person, seeing how rude and unworthy his interlocutor is, gets lost and, getting involved in an argument, quickly loses ground. Have you decided to prove your case and return everything to its place, be confident in yourself like no other. Even if your agrumentation suffers, or you have never had to deal with such a blatant swagger in your life, or if you are simply exhausted emotionally, you should be like a rock about which waves of other people's opinions are powerlessly breaking.
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This principle is valid in all such situations, even if you are trying to find justice for your own children. However, in this case, act from a position of love and affection. Do not make enemies of children: often, when children behave badly, they are just trying to find the city council for you. They have their own goals and interests, just like yours. Therefore, even when you have to resort to rather harsh measures, teaching a child a lesson, show him that you love him very much.
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Another thing is when you are a teacher, and the children around you are students. Here it is already necessary to find the council from the position of a teacher, not a parent. A parent who wants to replace a child has the goal of peace in the home and respect for his own person. For the teacher, the main thing is the educational process, hence the requirement of respect and the requirement of discipline. Children must learn, you must teach them; show respect for the children and demand the same in return. Show your example that you will not stoop to the scandals that children are so often waiting to break the lesson.
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Finding a council for students or subordinates is already more difficult. Here (especially with regard to the boss and subordinates) such networks are often weaved, such intrigues that the Madrid court itself would envy. What is there to do? The conflict situation needs to be smothered at the beginning. It is often better if you make concessions to the peaceful demands of either one worker or a small group of workers, without waiting for their conditions to become more severe, and peaceful performances will develop into a riot on the ship. Students are the same schoolchildren, only more cockroaches appeared in my head. Remember the educational and production process. Be respectful, and your subordinates will appreciate it.
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A completely different situation - when you need to repel the boor on the street, in the subway, in traffic, on the plane, in line. However, here, not all means are good. Never let a rude person make you angry and pissed off. You must be calm, ironic, sarcastic. Such people quickly find supporters, and such supporters, from whom there is more sense than from hysterical aunts or angry grandfathers with sticks. If the boor meets a calm rebuff, he himself will have to switch to calmer intonations. And the last: do not attach such importance to such unpleasant meetings. The main thing is to be able to withstand them with dignity.