Modesty - the quality is very positive. It can come from the nature of man. Or be acquired as a result of parenting. In any case, do not be shy about this feature. Moreover, for a serious relationship, most men choose just modest, decent girls. But there are situations when it is simply necessary to stop being modest.
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When is modesty not a virtue but a disadvantage? This quality is not the first in the list of character traits useful in career advancement. That the management noticed you, it is impossible to be modest. On the contrary, it is necessary to boldly come up with new ideas, suggestions for optimizing the workflow, and offer solutions to difficult problems. Of course, so all your activity will be in full view of the boss. And quietly sit out in the corner will not work. But you will not vegetate until retirement in one post. And for the promotion on the career ladder, the chef will choose you.
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Humble people are usually also shy. And very often they are simply afraid to ask for something. Although, if you really need help, asking for a service is okay. Especially if you ask about it people who for the rendered service will also receive money. For example, do not be afraid to ask the seller to bring you a couple more things to the fitting room. Consultants receive a percentage of any product sold, so consider that their service is already included in the price.
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Also, modesty will be superfluous in all kinds of state institutions - the pension fund, the tax service, the traffic police and so on. Unfortunately, most local officials still adhere to the old, Soviet model of behavior. And constant breaks for tea, delaying reception, vague answers to questions asked are still not uncommon. But to fight this is not only possible, but also necessary. Do not forget that the salary of officials consists of taxpayer money. And this means that you also pay for the existence of these citizens. That is, the expression "servant of the people" has a very real basis. Therefore, feel free to enter the office of the official you need during the reception hours. Do not back down if you are asked to come in an hour, day, month, century. You have come now and now decide your question. And if you are suddenly opposed, please file a complaint with a higher organization.
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Stopping being humble is easy. The main thing is practice. Communicate more with strangers, start a conversation first, look for new friends. Find yourself a hobby or hobby associated with active interaction with others. Change work to one that will allow you to show all your virtues. Then modesty from the main quality of your character will turn into a pleasant addition. And you will become a confident, strong modern woman.