If you have any problems in your life, and you are expecting a baby, then termination of pregnancy will not be a way out. All issues are resolved over time, and abortion, especially the first, is often the cause of infertility. Because of what a woman curses herself then all her life.
But there can be no more children
Problems are not eternal, they are solved over time, but abortion can forever deprive you of the joy of motherhood. After all, this is a serious operation. Medication of this kind (especially during the first pregnancy) quite often leads to infertility.
In a few years, when financial, housing problems are solved, you will be a wealthy person, you will dream about a baby, but once an abortion is done, it will not allow you to give birth to a baby.
In Soviet times, some actresses took a desperate step to terminate their pregnancy in order to act in films, preferring a career in personal life. As a result, they were never able to experience the joy of motherhood. They did not have the happiness of hugging their child, taking care of him. Ladies are now aged. When they give interviews, one can see how bitterly they speak on this subject, how much they regret that they did not let their baby be born, but nothing can be fixed.
A woman who is now at a crossroads and thinks that, having got rid of her unborn baby, she will solve all her problems very wrong. By giving life to another person becomes better. The soul is filled with happiness, strength comes and everything becomes on the shoulder. It was not for nothing that the wise ancestors said that if God gives a child, he will also give food.
There is no work, the beloved does not want a child
These words are often repeated by failed mothers. They believe that they are an excuse for having an abortion.
If the father of the child does not want his son or daughter to be born, then this is a serious reason to think, but does he love you? Such an act will show that no. If he values you, he will cherish and will never offer such a way out. Adoring you, he will treasure the joint fruit of love.
If there is no work and money, then such a problem can be solved overnight. Register on the labor exchange, they will look for suitable options and pay benefits. Even if a woman does not work, payments also come from social security. Yes, that money will not be enough.
When the baby is born, you can get an hourly job (postman, seller, cleaning lady, packer). And 3-4 hours mom and girlfriend will sit with the baby. Try to find a homework. Write articles on the Internet, embroider, or find use for your other paid talents.
All this is enough to refuse an abortion, even if a man insists on it. Indeed, there is often such a situation that a woman, due to surgical termination of pregnancy, cannot then become a mother, and he leaves for the one that will give him heirs.
A man may insist on an abortion due to little experience. He still does not know that when he holds his blood in his hands, happiness will overwhelm him. Therefore, it is quite possible that after the birth of the first-born, he will change his views.