Human charm does not depend on his appearance, success or financial income; it consists of invisible hooks that you throw into people's hearts. It seems that you just like it, but really not easy, because there are several ways to become charming for everyone.
Instruction manual
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Set up a positive relationship with the person, even if you want to express disagreement with something. It is as if you should express understanding, even if, in your opinion, the person is not right. Smile sincerely and openly, internally wish good to others, and this will immediately be felt and appreciated - you will be loved and listened to.
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Thank people for what they have done for you. Create a habit of saying thank you every time you get something from a person. And it doesn’t matter whether it was help in a difficult task or a planned dinner prepared by your spouse - everything requires your appreciation, so let her spill out. There is nothing nicer than being appreciated. And you will feel a warm look at yourself as soon as you say another “thank you”.
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Try to always praise people for their achievements, because the need for approval is in each of us, and it must be satisfied regularly. It is extremely important for a person to know that what he does is important and significant, and he does it well. And when he hears these laudable words from you, he will no doubt be sincerely grateful. Your attentiveness and sensitivity will form the basis of your charm.
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Feel free to compliment people. Of course, they should not turn into hypocrisy, but it is important that your words of admiration reflect reality. Point out that you like your girlfriend’s costume or express admiration to your friend for his ability to resolve conflicts and lead things to the desired result. In every person there is such a quality that you can speak out with sympathy.
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Pay more attention to people, reach out to them, listen and go first to contact. The more you look in their direction, the more significant they feel. Accordingly, their sympathy for you increases, you become for them a very pleasant and charming person with whom you do not want to interrupt communication.