Many people, even in adulthood, do not fully realize how to find themselves in life and understand what to do. Especially often this happens if a person is forced to do unloved business for a long time. In order not to get completely depressed, you need to use simple tips that will help direct life in the right direction.
Instruction manual
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Start with yourself and remember your childhood, what you were fond of at that distant or not too time. Often, desires and dreams formed at an early age can determine the whole future life of a person and what he should do. Even if you had to abandon all this in favor of a more practical professional activity, do not rush to part with childhood dreams. For example, a passion for drawing or singing, in fact, can turn out to be quite good income and carry you off your head. Listen to your imagination, and it will tell you what to focus on.
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Make a list of your favorite things, listing them briefly, for example: "sing, dance, travel, cook, run, play, etc.". Most of them are likely to remain no more than a hobby, but some may be a true vocation, especially if you want to find yourself in life and understand what to do. For example, in the indicated list the actions “cook” and “play” can be completely turned into your profession: to study as a cook or teacher (to play with children in a kindergarten or camp) is not at all difficult, and at the same time you can devote your life to what do you like.
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If you like the current profession, but you still think that you cannot find yourself in life, most likely, you have not formed hobbies and hobbies, which also form an important part of life. Some of them can be gleaned from the previous list, for example, go to countries that you have long dreamed of visiting, or engage in an interesting sport. Others are formed intuitively. Do you like helping people? Then you can do charity work. Do you like animals? Numerous shelters and just street cats and dogs will be extremely happy for your attention and care for the smaller brothers.
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Imagine, or rather, write down step by step your ideal day, as you imagine it. Perhaps in your memory a lot of interesting thoughts will come up on how to spend time. Try to at least partially bring this plan to life, and gradually it can become exactly the way you want to see it. Remember that your life and what you do should give real peace of mind, not cause hostility and rejection. Try to make your dreams come true by any means and always strive to diversify your daily routine with new types of activity.