Every person wants to find his love, and, as a rule, at least once in his life this happens to everyone. But there are so many examples before my eyes when not everyone managed to save it. Agree, you have friends who once could not imagine a day without each other, their love seemed eternal, but some time passed, their feelings for each other disappeared somewhere and everyone calmly went their own way, forgetting about his former love. Finding and preserving love, carrying it through all the troubles of life is not an easy task.
Instruction manual
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Paradoxical as it may sound, selfless love is available only to a person who loves himself, such a person is able to love and value his environment, recognizing the same right to love yourself. Usually love yourself without any preconditions. You should not tie your love to some kind of material well-being or to some actions and actions on the part of your loved one. Love him just like that, regardless of circumstances that can often change.
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In order to preserve his love, do not forget about the preservation and development of his own personality and interests. You must always protect your personality and have your own personal life. This will allow you to keep your partner or husband interested in yourself. In a happy marriage both spouses are happy, if you fully devote yourself to another person, then only he will be happy from this. You will begin to accumulate grievances associated with their own unfulfillment, which someday will surely spill out.
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You should know that relationships and feelings are cyclical. Even the strongest love at certain times can weaken in order to then reignite. Know how to calmly survive these periods both at home and at your husband’s place, this is a completely normal occurrence and you don’t need to panic and suspect him or yourself that love has passed.
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To maintain a relationship, you should communicate as much as possible and discuss everything that excited you or aroused interest. Such close communication, the ability to listen and understand each other, promotes trust and unites the family. Your home should be the place where you feel warm, comfortable and safe. In this case, both of you will strive for it, and you will be able to preserve your feelings for a long time.