Admit to yourself frankly, is your life developing as you once dreamed? If not, come to your senses! As long as you are alive, you have a chance. Few people think, but most often the reason for the failure is that the person did not find his place in life, he does not do what he was created for. Using a simple practical method, try to discover yourself in a new way and start a new interesting life.
In finding a vocation, you will need only a few simple questions and the help of loved ones.
1. Self-esteem
Talk to yourself first. Choose a time when no one will distract you. Come to the very favorite place that inspires you. It can be anything - a picturesque park, a quiet street, a cozy cafe. Turn off your mobile phone and focus on your thoughts. See your life as a movie and honestly answer the following questions:
- What can I do well?
- What do I do best?
- What can I be proud of?
- Who do I see myself in the future?
- How can I help other people?
As you noticed, your weaknesses and failures are absolutely not important. Concentrate on what you manage to do easily and with pleasure, what is your strength and benefit for the world around you.
2. Assessment by
Think about what a person’s success depends on. Is it just that he managed to do something very well. Most probably not. A person truly feels his success only when his achievements are recognized by his environment, that is, by other people. That is why when looking for a calling, it is extremely important to know the view of you from the side.
Firstly, it means the opinion of the closest people who know you well (parents, husband / wife, brothers / sisters, close friends). And secondly, select a few acquaintances with whom you communicate a lot for life, and whose point of view you value (work colleagues, fellow students, teachers). Their answers may also be curious. So, you need to ask these people the same questions.
- What can I do well?
- What do I do best?
- What can I be proud of?
- Who do you see me in the future?
- How did I help you?
3. Analysis of responses
Do not hesitate, the process will be very exciting. Perhaps some answers will seem unexpected, but among them you will definitely find something in common. Here lies the key to unraveling your calling.