The hero of our time is the Internet. The whole world is now one big village, and thanks to social networks, you can even find the page of your neighbor on the Internet a floor below, which you never greeted.
You will need
- - access to the Internet
- - accounts on social networks
Instruction manual
one
Browse the profile of the person you want to start chatting with. Look at his photos, find out with whom he is friends, what are his hobbies and interests, what kind of music he listens to and what kind of movies he attends. Social networks provide great opportunities for meeting people and searching for their interests. Do not ask for things that are already written in the profile.
2
Ask open-ended questions so that the person you are talking to cannot clearly answer yes or no. After that, we may end up in a dead end, not knowing how to continue the conversation and an awkward silence will follow. Instead of asking, “Did you like this book?”, Ask, “What exactly did you remember in the book?”
3
Do not use slang (for example, "Pandocaffian"), try to write correctly, without spelling and punctuation errors. Your communication will probably begin in writing, so take it seriously. Your messages - a kind of business card, your initial image. Try to make it enjoyable.
4
Do not respond only with emoticons and monosyllabic phrases. Such answers may make you feel that you are not too interested in communication and are trying to get rid of as soon as possible.
5
Try not to lie about yourself, because if communication comes to a meeting in reality, there is no longer a chance to hide the truth. Moreover, the advice - be yourself - never lost its relevance.
6
Take your time. On the one hand, you should be interested in a person, on the other - it’s also not worth pushing. Try to avoid personal and intimate topics.
note
Do not interrogate the interlocutor and do not forget about humor. The conversation should be interesting, not annoying or lulling.
Useful advice
There is a good way to meet a person from your city. Ask friends and write "Hello, I saw you at the club." People do not remember such meetings, so the method works fine.