Each person with whom we communicate, make friends, work together, affects us to one degree or another. And, of course, I want communication to bring joy. But, unfortunately, this is not always the case. By naivety, indiscretion or kindness, we often let people who bring pain and troubles too close to ourselves, and then do not know how to get rid of them. Do not despair - anything is possible.
Instruction manual
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The main thing - do not try to dot all i. It is not always necessary to reveal to the person the whole truth about how bad and so on. Each person has his own truth, and at the same time, no one wants to admit mistakes for himself, but safely blames others. Therefore, an open conversation will only lead to scandal, waste of nerves and further confrontation. Moreover, you should not arrange "open partings" with those who often have to face, for example, at work or in the circle of common friends.
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The most reliable way is to smoothly reduce communication to nothing. Time is something that every person always lacks. It’s worth emphasizing this: “I would be glad to meet, but I have so many things to do today
"Reduce communication smoothly, occasionally show signs of attention, but keep your distance.
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Refuse accusations and insults. Try to see the good sides in the person. Think about the reasons for his bad behavior. Go to church and pray for his health. Do not wish him bad. Do not say “That he perished, ” replace this wording with the positive “let him disappear from my life for the benefit of himself and me.”
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Try to understand what life lesson you should learn from communicating with an unpleasant person. As a rule, when you understand your mistake and begin to understand the situation as a whole, a bad person, as if by magic, disappears from your life. And no one similar to him also appears anymore. After all, the mission is completed. Lesson learned.