Each person in a given life situation is faced with rudeness, impudence, and boorish behavior in relation to himself. But not all people, by virtue of their character or upbringing, are able to give a proper rebuff in order to maintain dignity and not spoil the mood. What are the ways to deal with offenders?
Instruction manual
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For starters, you need to learn how to control your emotions. If you are offended or insulted, and you begin to blush, make excuses or, even worse, cry, this will add confidence to the offender. Those around you will impress a weak and defenseless person. Therefore, it is necessary to control yourself and relax at a critical moment, while maintaining calm and a confident look. Take a deep breath, imagine a man who was rude to you, in a large glass jar through which you cannot hear anything, but only see how he funnyly slaps his lips. With this technique you will get rid of unnecessary excitement.
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Learn to own a look. Sometimes a bold and confident direct look can scare away a potential offender. Train at home in front of the mirror - for 5-7 minutes, at least once a day, look in the eye to your reflection. Do not look away and try not to blink. Let your whole appearance speak of superiority and self-confidence.
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You can repulse the offender with a sense of humor, in other words, ridicule him in public. This requires well-posed speech and the ability to joke. This is not given to everyone, for some people with a slow reaction, all the necessary thoughts come after some time, so it is difficult for them to respond to attacks in their direction immediately. If you relate to this category of people, learn a few phrases with which you can respond to insults in your direction in different situations:
"As you can see, you have a lack of male (female) attention, but do not break the evil on others!"
"It can be seen that you are completely lonely in life, and it is not surprising if you hate people so much!"
"I sincerely feel sorry for you. With this attitude towards people, you probably have no friends."
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Sometimes humane ways to deal with offenders do not work. Psychologists advise that if a boor man does not pose physical danger for you, you can put his place in his own way - without shyness of strong expressions in his direction.
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If any impudent person annoys you constantly, and you don’t know where to hide from his bullying, try the last method - to scare him. Surely, you or your friends have a familiar brutal man who is ready to stand up mentally and physically to protect a good person. Sometimes this method works better than other methods of dealing with offenders. This is better than enduring constant insults.