Everyone jokingly, and perhaps seriously, asked a similar question. The sooner you think about it, the better. What is he, the ideal partner for life? And does he exist?
Initially, you need to determine the qualities of the future partner. Determine which qualities you would like to see and which are unacceptable to you. Having a clear picture of who you want to see next to you will help you meet such a person faster.
Take a sheet of paper and a pen and write a list of the desired qualities of the future partner. Describe your desires in as much detail as possible. You must understand what your life partner should be:
· How he should behave at work and in the family;
· What kind of hobbies should he have;
· How he should relate to you;
· How should treat future children;
· How he will relate to your relatives;
· How he is able to behave in serious situations;
· How it can equip your life;
· How to organize leisure activities;
· How resourceful and witty he is.
The more qualities you describe, the more approximate the image you can get. However, once describing the portrait of the desired man or woman is not enough, this must be done constantly, each time crossing out the excess or adding to the list.
Of course, it is difficult to meet a person who will fully comply with all the points presented, rather even impossible. You must understand this, and therefore be prepared for the fact that you will meet a person who will be maximally suitable only for the main features and your main needs.
To avoid mistakes, highlight a few qualities that you can never accept. Such a list can also be compiled. Only having a clear idea of who you want will it be easier for you to evaluate potential applicants by comparing with your requests.