How to behave so that a loved one feels good with you. How to learn to appreciate the love and care of others. What to talk with your loved one. Do I need to talk about my feelings?
Instruction manual
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Love yourself first. After all, without love for yourself, it is impossible to truly love other people. Appreciate yourself, love yourself, develop your creativity.
Take care of yourself. Lead a healthy lifestyle, go in for sports to be in shape and feel good.
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Give love to others. Radiate warmth, kindness, let your eyes shine with sincere interest. Listen carefully to other people, and especially to someone close to you. Then you can better understand and appreciate it.
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Talk to your loved one. Ask to tell him about your feelings for you, tell him about yours. Be honest and sincere. Always tell your loved one if something upsets you. Gently and unobtrusively ask him for help. He will be happy to help, because then he will feel that you need.
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Appreciate all the good that is in the chosen one. Thank him for what he does for you. Praise him more often, remind him of his best qualities. Remember that a person seeks to become what others want to see him.
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If something does not suit you in a loved one, or something is missing for you, do not be afraid to tell him about it. Trust each other, share your feelings, do not keep emotions in yourself. He will try to become better and give you what you are missing.
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Do the hints. Do not expect your loved one to suddenly guess what you want. Hint or just talk about your desires. Try and do something for him.
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Find what was once expensive for both of you. Engage in shared memories, this remarkably strengthens the relationship. Remember something good that happened between you before.
note
In severe cases of mutual misunderstanding, consult a family psychologist, he will help you understand each other better and reach agreement.