The desire to be the best in everything is not narcissism and naivety, because you do not consider yourself the best, you want to become one. This shows your potential and desire to work on yourself - the right approach of a strong, energetic and creative person.
Instruction manual
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Define goals. It is impossible to be the best in everything that exists in the world, and you understand this, so you want to achieve the heights only in those areas that are interesting and important to you. List them and write down, as well as indicate why you focused on them. Motivation plays a big role in setting goals: doing sports to improve your health and shape, not to buy new sneakers. If you will clearly present the result of your activity, then do not quit your job halfway and become the best in your chosen business.
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Make a plan separately for each goal. To do this, study the area in which you want to succeed: in what ways you can achieve the result and what resources will be needed. When you know exactly what needs to be done, proceed with the preparation of the plan: it is advisable to first outline it in general terms, breaking it down into several large steps, and then deepen and structure them. Do not plan what you cannot do. For example, for a better understanding of the French language, you need to go to study it in France, but if you do not have the opportunity, then such a point in the plan should not be.
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Do not spray. You want to be the best in several areas, but you need to correctly approach when it is better to combine them, and when you pay attention to only one goal: you can learn a language and work on your appearance, but at the same time learning two languages is not recommended. In small steps, go to the goal, and then you will be able to act in several directions and not overexert. Do not expect a quick result - remember, working on yourself requires a lot of time, effort and patience, so it’s impossible to become the best in everything.
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Follow the plan. Identify the highest priority goals and begin to act in their direction. Evaluate the achievement of which results are most costly in time, and include small steps already in the first stages of the plan. Separate in a separate category those areas that relate to personal life, life, appearance, nutrition, health, etc., and deal with them every day - this should become a habit, so you can not put them off the bat.
note
Do not bump into perfectionism. If you didn’t succeed, do not sprinkle ash on your head. Failures happen all the time, and you are not immune from them. Take them calmly as one of the manifestations of life.
Useful advice
Celebrate your successes - this will help you not to lose enthusiasm and to get to work with renewed vigor. Praise and reward yourself for each achievement so that you feel that you are getting better with every step.