It is extremely important for a person as a social being to stay in a society of his own kind. Even the most avid introvert periodically needs active communication. However, it does not always proceed smoothly and without problems. Sometimes people suddenly come across some kind of social isolation - they do not leave the feeling that everyone, including the closest ones, has turned their backs on them and openly ignores their existence. How to be in such an uncomfortable situation?
Identify the reasons for the boycott
First of all, it’s important to understand for yourself: those around you who were warmly welcoming a specific person yesterday quite warmly cannot change their attitude towards him completely without reason. Such dramatic changes would certainly have had a reason - which someone who suddenly found himself in forced social isolation could have lodged without even noticing and not attaching such significance.
Experts say that the behavior of those around us serves to some extent as an indicator of our attitude towards them. It is as if they reflect the emotions and feelings that we throw on them, and return them in the form of a corresponding reaction. Thus, everyone is given the opportunity to understand how his line of behavior is acceptable in a particular social environment and whether it needs to be adjusted in this regard.
Sometimes the fact that others turn away is sometimes provoked by such a seemingly trifle as the sloppiness of a person - in clothes or in caring for his own home. In such a case, a considerable number of people find it easier to minimize communication with such an untidy, groomed person than to make a comment on this subject. In addition, the very communication with someone from whom unpleasant amber comes from due to neglect of hygiene procedures, and things from the wardrobe are somewhat reminiscent of vestments of people without a certain place of residence, causes a lot of negative emotions from which everyone wants to protect themselves.
The causes of a certain boycott from others are also often the oddities of human behavior. For example, aggression, rudeness. However, the changes in the life of a particular person (in particular, the adoption of an religion unusual for a given country, a change of circle of communication to a more marginal one, etc.) also provoke the condemnation of many people from his environment.