You have probably heard more than once that someone has been given such a characterization — a “complex” or a “difficult” one. Hearing this, without even knowing any examples, everyone understands what this means. It is difficult and difficult to communicate with such a person, it is uncomfortable with him, since it is difficult to predict his thoughts and actions. Very often, this character is a manifestation of mental disorders and nervous disorders.
Complex character is a medical problem
The notorious "transitional age" is also characterized by a change in the nature of the teenager is not for the better. During this period, most of them have just such a character - complex and difficult. But, when hormonal restructuring ends, the guy or girl again becomes quite adequate, and the epithets that are described by those around them no longer include these definitions. Hormonal rearrangement, the cause of menopausal changes, is also often accompanied by a change in behavior and a deterioration in character. But these are all phenomena of a temporary order. There are people whose character is “complicated” for others throughout their lives.
People with a complex character, as a rule, have strong energy, creativity and the ability to make innovative decisions, which, in some cases, makes them good employees.
This behavior is a psychopathic disorder and, most often, it is a hereditary disease and one of the parents of this person was also not simple. A child who, from childhood, took such manifestations for granted, will also not learn to restrain himself emotionally. But this problem is not only pedagogical, but also medical. Neuropathologists say that the difficult nature is a consequence of a slight brain dysfunction. An ordinary person in his cortex has special mirror neurons that help him understand the feelings of the people around him and predict their behavior and reaction. As a result, a person easily predicts what will be pleasant to others, and what can hurt them. According to one of the medical theories, people with a complex character, and, more simply, psychopaths, have a deficiency of mirror neurons, especially in the frontal lobes of the brain.
Take the complex nature of the partner for granted and do not try to remake it, just consider it in everyday life.