A car, an apartment in the city center, a villa, a yacht, a personal island, an airplane or even a spaceship. Each has its own level of claims, and it is impossible to say what success really is.
You need to ask yourself the question: what is success for you? Just let me direct your thoughts a little in the right direction. Success is even a small, insignificant shift from the point at which you were recently comfortable, and then you wanted to move forward.
Successes are small, medium and large. You need to clearly define which of which is what. Moreover, the first category includes tiny shifts. For example, you earned a dollar more this month than yesterday. If we continue to be expressed in monetary terminology, the average success is one hundred, two hundred, five hundred, one thousand dollars, and the big one is a million, for example. You must determine the specific numbers yourself.
Why were finances given as an example? Money is evil! Firstly, not evil, and secondly, it is a measurable indicator of a person’s success. The more money he has, the better he can be considered. And with this measurable indicator, everything is individual. One thousand dollars a month is enough. Moreover, not enough is enough. Another million people is not enough. And one ex-wife of a rich man seized $ 75 million from her husband and was indignant that she could not live on this amount. Here's how everything is relative.
Success is when you reach your goal. If you constantly achieve them, then this will characterize you as a successful person. That is why it is recommended to enjoy every little achievement. In this case, your self-esteem will grow by leaps and bounds. In addition, it is very important to enjoy not only the result, but also the process. Many believe that they will be happy when they are reached. And what, when they come to the point to which they have been moving for so many years, then why should they live? They have no incentive to move, they do not want anything. On the contrary, they perceive as happier those moments when they only went to the goal.
Therefore, learn to enjoy the process that almost no one can. In this case, you have a chance to feel successful today. Indeed, very often in the minds of people the words “happiness” and “success” are, if not synonyms, then at least simply close in meaning. Do not forget to relax.