The easiest and easiest way to achieve the goal is to express your thoughts directly, without any hidden subtext, hints, modesty. Not many people tend to speak directly.
If a child is much easier to manipulate adults, then for adults, on the contrary, it is much more profitable to speak directly. Adults, due to their independence, can themselves demand and set conditions. Of course, there are adults who use children's methods of behavior in conversations and actions. For example, fearing the punishment of the authorities, they deny their guilt and dump everything on others.
It would seem that in this it is to say directly about your thoughts? It's all about fear and closure, which can interfere with you. For example, many parents are afraid for their children, they have a feeling of guilt, so they provide them until old age. It happens that parents devote their lives to their children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and in return do not even receive words of gratitude. They can take on debts and loans, pull the strap, and in response the children are only rude. Fear of speaking honestly and directly makes it very difficult to live.
Respect in the eyes of others can be obtained if you behave openly and directly. Everyone has the right to his opinion, to his feelings, which he can express at any time without fear. Many do not understand that hiding their thoughts is wrong. Speaking with some hidden subtext, you can not only lose the respect of others, but also will not achieve the desired result.