It is sometimes difficult to remain a good person. After all, some positive qualities can complicate life. Others are able to take advantage of the kindness and honesty of decent people.
Honesty and directness
Frank people sometimes pay for their own honesty. There are cases when, in order to maintain a relationship with a person or get rid of potential troubles, it is better to remain silent or lie. People who tell the truth in any situation can cause irritation to others.
In addition, such individuals lose one way to defend themselves. After all, a lie to save helps get out of a predicament.
Kindness and gentleness
A kind person can count on popularity in the team. However, the attitude of others around him is not always sincere. Some people may simply use the kindness of others.
Kindness and inability to say no provokes manipulators. Soft people often become victims of hypocrites who are ready for anything for their own purpose. It happens that others do not reckon with the opinion of a good person.
Sincerity and openness
Sincerity is a wonderful human trait. Near such people is really comfortable and calm. With an open friend, you can discuss any topic.
However, sometimes sincere people suffer from their own frankness. Some individuals may use personal information about a person obtained in a confidential conversation for their own purposes.
Decency and integrity
Decency is one of the necessary qualities of a positive person. Knowing one’s principles, respecting the interests of other people, unwillingness to act contrary to one’s own conscience is what distinguishes a decent person from a villain. At the same time, others are able to take advantage of the decency of another person and deceive him.
Unfortunately, it became difficult for a decent person to build a career. It happens that the bosses get knocked out due to some meanness or dishonest move.
A principled individual with a thirst for justice may not reach the deserved heights in the career ladder only because of his unwillingness to go over his head.
Sense of humor
A sense of humor helps to cope with life's hardships and become the soul of the company. But it needs to be demonstrated in moderation. It happens that a person jokes on a topic that is painful for the interlocutor, and therefore causes dislike in him.
Before you give out another batch of humor, think about whether it will offend any of those present. Keep in mind that it’s better not to joke about politics, health, nationalities and religion at all.