Men have different ideas about life, family life, but there are three main needs in relations with a woman. On how much a lady is able to understand this, to accept and give what is necessary, depends on whether she will become the one and only darling or move away from the path.
1. The need for respect
A man, receiving unconditional respect in the family, not for some special merits, but simply for the fact that he is, feels the need to grow and develop for the benefit of his beloved people who appreciate him so much. Otherwise, his hands will drop, and his desire to strive for something more will disappear, because he will not be recognized, no matter what.
2. The need for trust
It is much easier for a man to live in a family in which they believe him and do as he said, without entering into bickering, disputes, or arranging squabbles and scandals. The fact that trust is advanced to him imposes a responsibility with which he feels significant, necessary and loved. Not every wife, contrary to her own opinion, can follow her husband’s position, meekly obeying his will and taking all his undertakings with enthusiasm. But only such a mature woman deserves family happiness and harmonious relationships.
3. The need for admiration
Of course, a man commits himself in the name of self-affirmation, but in the eyes of his beloved woman. You should always remember this and thank him for his attention, for trying to cheer him up, for surprises and gifts, for the truth, for all the good. Indeed, if you take everything for granted and be capricious, which is not enough, but your friends have more, it is most likely not to cause your spouse to strive for the best, but to stop making attempts that will not really be appreciated.
Wise women will never claim primacy and dominance in family relationships. A smart hostess will be a reliable support and psychological support for her husband in all his endeavors. A foolish lady is eager to plunge her man in an unequal battle for the doubtful leader’s laurels, thereby humiliating her husband’s dignity and making him an unhappy henpecked, drunkard or reveler.
Men, like women, entering into official relations, hope to receive moral and emotional satisfaction. In the face of their wife, they want to see not only a caring mother, a faithful lover, a seductive nymph, but also a reliable friend who can be trusted with the most secret and who can’t be relied on to shame.