Many set goals and achieve them, while others have to be content with little. What is the difference between these people? First of all, in the right thinking and perception. This is not as easy as it seems at first glance.
What prevents us from getting what we dream about?
Many say that the human brain is like a computer. We can agree with this, because one wrong thought or action can lead to a complete failure in our actions.
- Uncertainty in achieving goals
Self-confidence affects all spheres of our life, including success in some business. How do you feel when you realize that you cannot get what you want? Most likely, you will be reluctant to take at least one small step towards your dream, because it does not make sense. On the contrary, our confidence that we will receive our cherished goal, although not immediately, will always help us move forward.
- I would rather get everything at once
The immense potential of importance creates too much interference. The desire to quickly achieve the goal can generate many unpleasant emotions, such as intense excitement or excitability. Moreover, each failure is likely to be very frustrating and may ultimately lead to the first point.
- I don’t really want to
If we cannot afford to get what we want, then there will always be many obstacles that we will not always be fully aware of. For example, a person wants a car, but at the same time, he realizes that with the car there is a lot of trouble and material costs. There is a desire, but accepting what needs to be done does not help much.
- Without this purpose, my life does not make sense
Almost resembles the desire to get faster, only in an even more multiplied version. No matter how we dream about an expensive car or high career growth, we should learn to live in the present and thank the universe for what we have, because many do not even have what we have. The desire to move and develop should not distract from what is now.