A loser is a man of misfortune, a loser, one who, as they say, "does not always thank God for everything." Often people themselves choose such a life, and then they don’t even try to change something. But if you are sure that you can’t continue living like that, start acting.
Instruction manual
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Stop pitying yourself and lowering your self-esteem. If you complain about life, circumstances, people every day, you will never succeed. Instead of explaining why you are not doing something, look for an opportunity to take action.
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Do not compare yourself with others. Each person has his own circumstances, opportunities and his own life. No need to focus on other, more successful people - this will not add strength to you. Analyze yourself and your life. Set goals and reflect on what you have done in order to achieve them. To encourage yourself, think about what you have changed in yourself for the current day, in which you have become better. If you do not find the answers, then plan the next day to achieve something small, for which you can praise yourself.
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Show generosity. Break up with the stereotype of "giving - you lose." On the contrary, you gain and become better in the eyes of others, and their opinion about you is very significant. Without stint, you will achieve a respectful attitude towards yourself.
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Do not do things that are not satisfying. A person who does something by virtue of circumstances, rather than desires, initially feels miserable. Although you are most likely used to this situation, it needs to be changed. Seriously think about how you can diversify your work or find another. Do not discard this idea just because you are not sure of success. If it’s difficult to tune in for changes, ask someone from your friends and relatives for help.
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Start to appreciate the time. The problem with the losers is that they let life pass by. They do not notice that time is running out irrevocably. Instead of complaining that time is running out and you still have it, use every minute to good use. Do not let yourself relax until hard work becomes a part of your personality.
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Praise yourself for achievements. Observe the smallest successes and be proud of yourself. Do not let others belittle your dignity and criticize you. Listen only to those who know and love you. Remember that people tend to judge by what they see, and even if not everything works out for you, only you know what efforts your success is worth.