It is known that one can understand from a voice whether a person is sure of what he is talking about, to guess about his mood and internal state, and even understand his attitude to the interlocutor. The voice gives out emotions, true feelings of the speaker, no matter what words he utters.
Instruction manual
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Observations show that young children and animals do not react to the meaning of words addressed to them, but to intonation. They still do not understand the language, they accurately determine whether they are affectionate or, on the contrary, express dissatisfaction.
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In fact, any person receives about 70% of the information from the conversation, automatically analyzing not what they are told, but how it is done. The timbre of the voice, and the pace of speech, and its intonation, and rhythm also matter. This analysis takes place at a subconscious level. Having mastered the speech, a person pays too much attention to its content, but at the level of instincts feels when the words diverge from the true state and mood of the interlocutor.
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Therefore, it can be easy to determine when a person is lying in a conversation, expressing neglect or doubt, admiring, or, conversely, feeling bored with communication.
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The voice betrays the truth, while words can lie. This happens because it is much easier for a person to control his words and thoughts, to build evidence logically than to master the art of managing spontaneous emotional reactions, which are manifested both in posture, in gestures, and in voice.
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Few set out to perfectly master their voice apparatus as a tool for sound extraction. Rather, it is the prerogative of actors, vocalists, and professional speakers. Their well-set voice, mastery of it is the result of painstaking, focused work, long exercises and training. At times, teachers have a wonderful possession of their voice, but this, as a rule, is more a result of intuitive continuous training than conscious work.
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But an ordinary person has little idea how his vocal chords and the speech apparatus as a whole work. He does not think what the mechanism of sound extraction is, how to consciously change its character, timbre, color. People use this tool intuitively as it happens. And as a result, the voice betrays feelings, emotions and feelings.
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Aerobatics of self-control is the ability to control all the manifestations of one’s own body so that volitional effort outstrips the instinctive reaction - then the voice will express only those feelings and emotions that you wanted to convey. Perhaps this skill will be useful during business negotiations, in communication with opponents and ill-wishers. But with those who are dear and close, is it not better to be sincere and let them look into the wonderful world of your true feelings and emotions?