Bad habits are usually called those with which we destroy our physical and mental health. Most often, the use of various psychoactive substances refers to them. But there are no less destructive habits that few pay attention to - social.
- Egocentrism. Very often there are people who talk only about themselves. Sometimes they may ask you some question, but only in order to say after that: "It’s clear, but I
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". An egocentric person takes any conversation topics into himself, and it’s completely not interesting to communicate with him. If you notice such a trait, try to correct it. Ask questions, be genuinely interested in your interlocutor. Listen not to answer, but to to understand. Interruption also belongs to the same problem. Cutting off your opponent’s phrases at a glance is not only indecent, but also destructive for your relationship.
- Inattention during the dialogue. In today's world, many people do not let go of mobile phones. Sometimes they look at the screen even during a conversation with a living person! This habit is definitely worth getting rid of. You will not get any productive result from simultaneous dialogue and communication on the Internet. A lot of information will be missed, and the person most likely will not want to communicate with you anymore. If you urgently need to resolve some issue on social networks, ask for a minute to wait, then postpone your mobile phone.
- Self-pity. The desire to draw attention to oneself sometimes leads to a flood of complaints. A person begins to refute all compliments, which he is trying to achieve new words of praise: "Do not be silly, I look today just awful
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". If you received a compliment, accept it. Even if you are not attractive enough at the moment, limit yourself to gratitude. And the topic of complaints concerns not only compliments, but also your whole life. Try to be a more cheerful person. The less you tell others, as you have everything bad in life, the easier and more fun your life will be.
- Try to please everyone. This habit may be liked by others, but it is destructive to the person himself. You won’t get enough nerves and physical strength for all requests and deeds. The desire to help everyone and everyone only leads to exhausted nerves and irritability. Learn to say no, and devote your time to really important things.
There are only four habits, but getting rid of them, you will see how much more warm and comfortable communication with people around you has become. A little effort and practice - and a new style of communication will firmly enter your life.