It is human nature to change, and this happens all the time. But sometimes you want to transform not only your life, but also the existence of others. Very often this is done with the best of intentions, but even such motivation does not always bring happiness.
Instruction manual
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Intervention in the life of another person is possible, there are thousands of examples where parents or friends influence relationships in a couple, dictate their demands and make peace or quarrel relatives. This effect can be direct, very noticeable, and not bright, hidden. In both cases, some purpose is pursued. Also, parents keep their children under control until a certain age, and managers at work affect the time of employees. These processes occur in all areas.
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No one can definitely give advice - to intervene in the life of another or not, it all depends on the circumstances. Sometimes a glance from the side acts sobering, but sometimes it leads to even greater problems. It is important to find a balance when it is not worth doing something. No need to make efforts if you are not asked and asked for help. In this case, you can observe, adhere to some position, but not declare it. If a person needs it, he will turn, and only then should he speak his mind.
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It is worth changing the life of another when he himself cannot cope with any difficulties, makes many attempts, but he fails. And if it’s not difficult for you, then you can help. But here it is important that the person first tried himself, and did not immediately rely on someone. Constant support can deprive the person of the desire to achieve something, and then this will no longer be of help.
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Help is needed when there is a risk of another person dying. For example, an accident, illness, or hazardous situation sometimes requires quick intervention. In this case, do not postpone actions, you need to change a person’s life without hesitation. And there are times when a loved one does not realize that he is threatened by something serious, that the future depends on it, in this case it is necessary to clearly explain everything, show it with examples. This will avoid big difficulties.
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But to impose your opinion on simple issues is not worth it. Very often, parents convince their children where to go to study, what they become. And this can ruin the life of the child, because the opinion of the elders may not coincide with the needs of the teenager. It can also be aggressively offered a choice at marriage, in determining the place of work. And these are attempts to help change life, but they do not always bring joy. It is impossible for one person to understand what is required by another. Each person is unique, and the manager's position will suit one, and the artist’s work will be different. The choice made for a man is like fetters, it is difficult to get out of him, and there is no happiness in him.