Existing cognitive differences between the sexes explain why men and women react differently to the same situations. Differing in thinking, worldview, psychology, women are more characteristic of emotionality and impulsivity than men.
Reasons for Male Indifference
Male indifference is often explained by the behavior of the girl. If a girl actively displays feelings and emotions, demonstrating her dependence on relationships with a man, then the instinct of a hunter “falls asleep”. Such a man becomes passive, he has no one to conquer, fight, perform feats, because a woman is already in his power.
A man may lose interest in a woman who constantly talks about creating a family, insists on marriage. This behavior of a woman frightens off a man; he feels tension, because his personal freedom is under threat. As a result, he will make much less effort in developing relationships with a girl.
Aggression, conflict, causeless jealousy can also annoy a man, discouraging him from continuing to have a relationship with a girl. A man may lose interest after constant tantrums of the girl for minor reasons. Such a woman loses his charm and attractiveness in his eyes.
Indifference of a man can occur during a long relationship with a girl. From the point of view of psychology, over time, the man’s body on the hormones that entered his body during love, develops immunity. Therefore, over time, his feelings become dull, the girl does not cause him the previous storm of emotions. A man becomes uninitiated and indifferent.
Previous negative experience also makes a man cautious with the choice of a companion, forcing him not to show active emotions: to declare love, to dedicate a poem, to commit beautiful deeds and more. In the general case, the rate of development of emotions and reactions between the sexes varies greatly, so the behavior of a man may not correspond to the girl’s expectations.
Attitude towards male indifference
Relating to male indifference in each case should be different, depending on the cause. It is necessary to analyze what exactly caused such a man’s behavior and changes in his mood.
If a man is carried away by another girl, then his behavior towards his former partner will be apathetic. Each woman in such a situation decides independently which line of behavior she should choose. Some women begin to actively keep a man, arranging tantrums, others - show indifference to what is happening.
Indifference of a man can be explained by problems at work and other reasons not related to the girl. The man in such a situation also looks detached and indifferent to the woman. First, he must solve the current problems, because his mind is fully occupied with the search for such a solution.
In the above example, the girl should respond to the behavior of the man with understanding. It was recommended to give him time to think, without exerting pressure on him, without interfering with questions. Every person from time to time needs calm and solitude. Soon, a man, having balanced his condition and resolving difficulties, will return to the woman as before.
In most cases, a frank conversation with a man helps to understand the cause of indifference. After analyzing the situation, the woman should choose the right moment for the conversation and arrange the man with her.