If you are known as a silent person, this is certainly not bad. Often, laconicism saves a person from not having to blurt out some stupidity once again. But if you are silent sometimes only because you do not know how to clearly express your thought and are afraid of the ridicule of others, this is a completely different matter. Oratory is rhetoric, the ability to logically express one’s thoughts, this is a whole science that needs to be mastered by someone who wants to force himself to speak.
Instruction manual
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Inability to speak is akin to stuttering. Use a well-known technique that helps people suffering from stuttering. Before you utter a phrase, formulate it in your head, mentally say it and slowly say it. Of course, you will not support a lively conversation this way, but this is only the beginning. If you learn to build and pronounce single sentences correctly, then it will become easier for you to collect coherent phrases from them.
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A great exercise, known since ancient Greece, where all famous speakers used it. Put a few round pebbles in your mouth (do not forget to wash them with soap!). Try to pronounce well-known tongue twisters by holding them in your mouth. The words you pronounce should be as clear as possible. After such training, when you remove the stones, it will become much easier for you to articulate correctly, and all the sounds that you will make will be crisp and clear
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Like any skill, the science of speaking is comprehended as a result of constant training. Make yourself template phrases that are suitable for every occasion. Practice their pronunciation first in solitude, then you can attract casual passers-by on the street or your next of kin to study. Try not to get off with monosyllabic answers when contacting you. Get in touch and speak in detail.
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When starting a conversation, clearly remember the thought you want to convey to your listeners. While you are just learning, do not get distracted by the details. Before you begin to talk, build a logical chain of those facts and conclusions that you communicate, and adhere to it, stringing sentences on top of each other.
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And remember that if you continue to be silent, you will never learn to speak. Train and you will get a great opportunity to communicate and be heard and understood by others.