Some relationships end on their own, and some, alas, have to end by violent measures. They are usually painful and bring people only suffering and irritation. Some people seem to draw strength, making them believe in stories about energy vampires. How to end communication with a difficult person?
Instruction manual
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The quick termination of relations, at first glance, saves a lot of energy, but in fact, more time will be spent on sorting out awkward relationships than on a passive method. A quick end to a relationship is only advisable if the person has strongly and deeply offended you, and the misconduct must be really significant, such that you cannot force yourself to communicate. If this is your case, directly tell the person that after what happened you don’t feel like communicating at all, and then drop the calls and ignore the email. The main thing is not to give a person unjustified hope for the restoration of relations, this is cruel.
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If you have come to the conclusion that you are going to end the relationship gradually, use the brake release. This means that any activity on your part is limited or even comes to naught. Do not call, do not write, do not come. For a long time your former friend will not be able to pull the strap of a relationship alone. It seems that there is no scandal, but relations are gradually cooling and essentially ceasing to exist. After all, any friendship feeds on communication, if you stop communicating, you will soon just have nothing to talk about, and the person will leave himself.
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The passive tactics of releasing relationships on the brakes should be complemented by the active creation of uncomfortable situations for your former friend. In the presence of him and others, discuss topics that are unpleasant for him, without saying anything specifically about him. But gradually the desire to be in the same circle with you from a former friend will decrease. It is also good to criticize a person for the frivolous occasions for the eyes, this should not be gossip, but simply a criticism of business qualities or behavior. Reasons for criticism should not be very offensive, otherwise it is easy to make the enemy. What you said behind your eyes will reach a person. In combination with discomfort and lowering the brakes, this will take the necessary action - you will stop communicating without scandals and enmity.