From trust to betrayal, one step, as well as from love to hate. However, few could live their whole lives without ever opening to another person. Of course, trust must be earned, but the meaning of this phrase is determined by each person for himself.
Instruction manual
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Why did you decide to button your soul on all the buttons? Perhaps you confuse the concepts of trust and gullibility. The first of them makes it possible to build sincere relations with well-known people, and the second means blind faith in the word. If you even intuitively feel the difference, you will realize that once you open up to a truly close person you are unlikely to call yourself a trusting simpletons.
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But what if someone tried to use your trust? As a rule, it is after such a sad experience that people begin to lock themselves in and cease to open even to close people. It turns out that if you do not trust, it is unlikely that someone will open his soul to you, and this path is fraught with loneliness and misunderstanding on the part of others. Analyze what you could have made a mistake and how to avoid this in the future. In no case do not withdraw into yourself, but rather start learning from your mistakes.
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If you are surrounded by a traitor, do not rush to spread all the ins and outs that you know about in return. Think about why a person decided to do this? Try to put yourself in his place, perhaps it was your behavior that provoked him to this vile step. Break off or continue friendship with him - you decide. Be that as it may, try to forgive the traitor. This will help you not to get hung up on distrust again and not to lose other friends.
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Inner openness helps a person overcome life's hardships and be surrounded by those who can sincerely share happy moments with you. Do not neglect trust just because someone once offended you. You cannot equate the rest with one betrayer. Better pay attention to those people who trust you. This means that they respect, value you, and are almost certain that you will not betray them. Perhaps you should try to open yourself to one of them.