In the life of each couple, sooner or later a moment comes when the feelings cool down and it already seems that nothing can be returned. Fortunately, there are several ways that can help revive fading feelings.
1. Find all the contradictions
The longest and most unpleasant job. It is necessary to understand why the feelings went out. When exactly did this happen, what actions did the partner lead to this, is it possible to return the lost. The main thing here is honesty before oneself. If you have confidence that a relationship is needed, you must make every effort to restore the relationship and, possibly, turn to a family psychologist.
2. Recall all the good that was
Unfortunately, over time, everything beautiful is forgotten in a relationship and partners mistakenly begin to focus on shortcomings. It is important to remember not only the cons, but also the pros of your relationship. What exactly brings happiness that cannot be found in another person.
3. Relive romantic moments
You need to remember how you spent time. Perhaps you had a romantic date by the river or other pleasant moments. Past events will help you plunge into the present and relive an exciting memory.
4. Accept a person as he is
This is actually the most important point. It is important to realize that before you is an already held person who cannot be remade, and what you are ready to do is to choose you. After all, the scattered socks around the apartment are one thing, and the shortcomings that prevent us from living a full life are completely different.
5. Give thanks for all the good that is now
The most important rule of life is to be grateful. When quarrels arise, all good things are often forgotten, and all the achievements of the second half go by the wayside. Write on a piece of paper what you value your partner for and re-read. All this will help preserve the value of the relationship.