Some girls are faced with a problem when the guy they like is stubbornly silent and obviously not inclined to start the conversation first, although he clearly sympathizes. What to do to start a conversation first, without frightening off or seeming intrusive?
Instruction manual
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Ask the young man questions on a topic of interest to him. It could be anything. Does he love computers or football? Perfectly! Ask him to tell you which laptop is better - you just choose a new one. Or ask to clarify, finally, what is this offside and why is it needed? If a man knows the subject (and you need to conduct a little reconnaissance to ask questions that will not put him in a puddle, but rather help to show off his knowledge), then he will explain everything to you with pleasure. Men are terribly fond of explaining to women what they do not understand. Take advantage of this feature.
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Questions are generally a good way to communicate with men. Just remember that they must be specific. Abstract themes and hints of men are annoying. Ask him if he saw the last movie that goes in theaters, or tried to play a new game. Discuss something specific with him, listen to his opinion, share yours. In conversation, gradually grope for a new topic for conversation, well, and then, as they say, a matter of technology.
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This move works great. Tell him something like: “I need your advice as a man. You are a smart and modern guy, I think your opinion can be very true. You see, my girlfriend got into this situation
“Throwing this hook, you can tell him at least the story of Anna Karenina (transferring the action these days and changing the names), at least Penelope or Elena the Beautiful.” What would you advise her in this situation? “The man will be flattered that he was chosen as an expert and that he they trusted and will gladly share their opinions. Your task is to talk to him, at the same time recognizing his views on life and relationships.
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There is nothing easier than starting a conversation if you are both students. There will always be a topic that is important for classmates - tests, requirements of teachers, notes, as well as parties and general acquaintances. Try to be natural and fun, do not bother and do not chat all the time yourself (men do not like female chatter), give him the opportunity to talk. And listen carefully. Nothing helps to open so much as the fact that they listen to you without interrupting.