The first meeting of two people born for the sake of living together and love is an important event, and it is very pleasant to recognize yourself as the cause and initiator of the couple’s happiness. But what if the spark between the girl and the boy slipped, and they are still embarrassed to talk alone with each other?
Instruction manual
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Organize a mass meeting. Invite more friends, about a dozen or more. At the same time, invite a young man with a girl, but apart. They do not even need to know about each other's arrival at the event. However, in the case of a direct question, answer truthfully.
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The friendly atmosphere in itself adjusts to the emotional mood. And if you use other relaxing means (dim light, replacing electric lamps with candles, some alcohol, etc.), confidential conversations are inevitable. Observe the behavior of the couple you are patronizing. Perhaps now they will want to retire and dot all i.
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After the party, if the conspiracy was or has just begun, make sure that the guy escorted the girl home. Ask her or both of them to call you upon arrival. So you will not only make sure that they are both alive and healthy, but also understand what each of them is experiencing in relation to each other.
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If there was no conspiracy, delay them after the party and ask them to help you with the cleaning. Leave them together (for example, he vacuums, and she erases from the table in the living room where the guests were sitting), and leave for another room for a while. Be sensitive, do not peek and do not listen to their conversation. Try to stay away from their eyes for as long as possible until you realize that the job is done. At the end of the cleaning, ask him to lead the girl, and both of them - to call you upon arrival home.
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If there is no talk of a spark, and young people rather hate each other, it is better not to meet and force them to communicate with each other. You will not only increase their aggression towards each other, but also ruin your relationship with both of them.