The psychology of relations between two loving people is such that to revitalize the senses it will never be superfluous to add a twist, add pepper. It can be joint club adventures, restaurant rest or started repairs, rafting on a stormy river or hiking in the mountains
The main thing is the time spent together. Filling the magic box of precious minutes lived together, you thereby extend the life of your happy marriage.
"Your answer to Chamberlain"
When starting a conversation with your husband, try to focus on personal plural pronouns: say "we" instead of "I", or "ours" instead of "mine." After all, marriage is a union, a tandem of two self-sufficient personalities who, by completely inexplicable magic, are attracted to each other. It should be clear to your husband that you play with him in the same team and do not position yourself separately. In every conversation, try to listen to his point of view, respecting his right to be a man, the main leader in your union.
When it comes to something piquant that it is hard for both of you to talk about, for example, during a truce after a quarrel, take the initiative, do not expect the narrowed one to make concessions. If the husband asked you a question and thereby baffled you, do not get lost. An honest and open answer is always better.
Trust don't check
One of the important factors in the breakdown of marital relations is the obsession and suspicion of one of the spouses. If a woman is jealous, constantly checks her phone and mail, reads sms and messages on her husband’s social networks, this will cause nothing but his annoyance (and often anger). Here it’s not even worth repeating how this behavior is unclean. So - no jealousy.
On the contrary - absolute trust! If your husband wants to spend the evening alone or in the company of friends, respond with consent. So you will deprive yourself and your spouse of unnecessary stress.
It happens that some detail may come up that makes you nervous: lipstick on a shirt, other people's spirits, a casual phrase about a new employee. Do not rush to make a scandal. Try to calmly, without too much hysteria, find out everything that interests you, but even here try not to dig too deep. Give your spouse more air, more freedom, and you will realize that you can actually trust him.