A person is able to forgive for a long time the unworthy behavior of loved ones and hope that the situation will change for the better. However, any patience sooner or later comes to an end. In such cases, you need to change something.
Accept the situation
First of all, put up with this situation and finally objectively evaluate the events. Blind faith in the ability to change a loved one by the power of their love should be replaced by a real understanding of things. If a person does not have his own desire to change, all efforts will be futile. When patience is exhausted, you should realize that this person will continue to behave in this way and further. At the same time, he can promise for the hundredth time to eradicate bad habits, but, always receiving forgiveness, abuses his trust.
It is worth making a decision for yourself: are you ready to put up with appropriate behavior all your life or will it be better to put an end to such relationships. This may not necessarily be a complete breakdown of relations, but it is necessary to completely change the tactics of interaction and transfer communication to another level.
Show emotions
If you constantly endure unpleasant behavior and remain silent in response to rude antics, begin to show your emotions and express dissatisfaction. However, do not have the illusion that this will lead to quick and positive changes. First of all, a frank conversation will help to get rid of the state of gravity in the soul, and it will make it easier for you.
In the event that your relationship proceeds in constant scandals, calls and clarifications of relationships, stop communicating and, conversely, stop expressing any emotions. Instead of wasting personal energy on useless conversations, it’s better to direct it to improve the quality of your own life.