You live your measured life, work, relax, make plans, everything changes in your usual way, when you see two stripes. With the advent of the child in the family, many familiar things will have to be abandoned, but you are guaranteed thousands of pleasant moments donated by your baby. But it will be later, but for now you decide how to communicate this good news to others, relatives and not so much.
Instruction manual
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Of course, you expect that the future dad, having learned about the news, will jump for joy, carry you in his arms, sing songs, but often such news introduces a man into a stupor. Do not think that he is not happy and will be a bad father, he just needs to "digest" such information.
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If you planned and waited a long time for pregnancy, then it is likely that you do the tests with him, he guards you near the bathroom and checks the tests, you can’t say anything, you’ll just be happy together.
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If you can’t wait at all, you can tell by phone, this method is quite common, though you will not see a reaction, but maybe it’s for the best. While you meet, the future dad will get used to the news. You can send an SMS, a message on ICQ, write an e-mail with a photo of a striped test, but in all these cases you will not know what kind of surprise your beloved man had on his face.
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You can organize a romantic dinner by candlelight, and to the beloved’s question, “In honor of what?” give him the news verbally, or put a test in a box and give it to a future dad.
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If your loved one is very impressionable, then you can come from afar, hint that you are not well, that you want pickled cucumbers, gradually leading him to think about your pregnancy. And when you see a willingness to receive the news, then let me know.
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You can buy booties, a bonnet, a stork figurine, drive around to children's stores, as imagination, abilities and thickness of the wallet allow. You can write a poem, a picture, order a T-shirt with an inscription or a picture with a hint, give a postcard, send a telegram.
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Now that you two know about this pleasant event, you can tell your parents. Of course, if you live with them, then your mother probably guessed your situation even earlier than you, but if you don’t, then you can call, and it’s better to go visit and please future grandparents.
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Familiar is better to inform after the first ultrasound. You can have a popular baby shower party in America dedicated to your pregnancy and your unborn baby. Where, according to the literal translation, they throw you gifts. And if you don’t really want to advertise, then inform only close friends.
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Whether to speak at work, you decide, you can keep your joy a secret until the tummy reveals a secret, or until maternity leave. The boss, of course, is better to learn the news from you than from other subordinates.