In our computer age, when it seems that relationships have become pragmatic and simplistic, girls still remain those girls that you may have read about in good books. They still love flowers, cute trinkets and, of course, compliments. The ability to do them correctly is not as simple as it might seem at first glance.
Sincerity
Girls are sensitive to deception and flattery, if you compliment insincerely, you will achieve nothing but disappointment. The complement will be correctly perceived only when made with desire and from the heart. If at the moment there is nothing to say, then it is better to remain silent and not try to come up with something absurd. The real compliment is not an on-duty set of beautiful words, but what you want to say to the girl at the moment. What you really like about her and what inspires admiration.
Attention
Your girl changed her hair, dyed her hair, made a new manicure. Men very often do not notice this or simply do not attach particular importance to these events. This is a big mistake. These events are quite significant for the girl, and when she meets you, she just needs to know what you think about it. A man should be attentive to the changes that have occurred with his girlfriend since their last meeting. Do not wait when she asks you. You should be the first to say something nice about her new look. Perhaps she did this, including that you would like.
Non-standard
Having met a girl, we can say that she looks great. Such a compliment would be like a joke about a white back. Beaten up and practically does not cause emotions. Look more closely at her, perhaps today she somehow smiles especially or her eyes shine joyfully. So use these details when you make a compliment. The girl will immediately understand that this is not an on-duty phrase, but the words of a person who does not look at her carefully and with sincere interest. In the end, remember Sherlock Holmes and be careful about the details.
Compliments
For example, a girl came in a new dress, you noticed this and want to tell her something nice. Do not restrain yourself, but praise not just her costume, but tell her how it goes with her, how she emphasizes the color of her eyes, and how she combines with them. Clothing not only decorates the girl, but also gives her more charm, sophistication and adds charm. Having said that, you did not just praise her new outfit, but complimented her taste, her ability to dress, or comb her hair beautifully if it comes to a new hairstyle.
You can tell the girl that she is charming or that she has wonderful eyes. This, of course, is always good to hear. But at the same time, it just looks like a listing of its merits. It is much more correct to report that you really like her eyes, that you consider her lovely and charming. Then the pleasant emotions that your words aroused in her will be associated precisely with you and with your attitude to her.