It is amazing how sometimes the most elementary problem, such as choosing clothes for an interview for work, can bring a person out of balance and make him doubt his abilities. You can get rid of this shortcoming in one way - to develop determination in yourself.
Instruction manual
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Each person must not only be able to make independent decisions, he must also be responsible for making them. Indeed, often people cannot decide on something just because they doubt whether they made the right choice. They always wait for someone to help them, push them to the right decision, or simply approve of their actions. When such an assistant is not nearby, they are lost and do not know what to do.
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It is necessary to cultivate determination in a person from early childhood, giving children the opportunity to solve minor problems on their own. This will allow them even then to get used to the idea that the responsibility for the decisions made falls on their shoulders, and then in adulthood this will not scare them so much. What to do to those who entered independent life without this baggage?
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Make independent decisions as often as possible. Do not expect someone to help, approve your choice. Just believe in yourself.
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Choose the methods by which you will achieve your goal. Do not ask for help, thereby shifting some of the responsibility to others.
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To develop your resolve, first set yourself not very difficult tasks. After all, everyone knows: nothing so elevates the spirit and self-confidence as the success of previous decisions.
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If necessary, solve the problem, think carefully and identify all possible solutions. Having studied all of them, choose the best one for you and justify why you chose this option. This is a very important step, as this is proof of your innocence. Do not think about what others will think about it, act as you see fit.
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Go in for sports, it will not only help you to be in good physical shape, but also will increase your determination by overcoming small obstacles during classes. Only determined people can succeed in life. Those who never learned to make independent decisions will live life in eternal doubts and hesitations. Doubt or action? The choice is yours!