Everything happens for the first time. It’s okay that something else hasn’t happened in your life. This is the beauty of the moment - that the first time will be no more. But you will realize this later, and now you need to achieve the result - to invite to the cinema, and to do it perfectly correctly.
Instruction manual
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Work on your condition first. You must exude confidence and fun, in other words, you must be in a resource state when you talk. Remember the situation in which you were as confident as possible. Remember what exactly happened and how this feeling was born in you. Feel it all over again. Squeeze your wrist just before the peak. This will put the so-called "anchor" with which you can call this state at the right time.
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Make a conversation diagram. Your goal is to invite to the cinema, so this is what should be in the center of the conversation. The conversation should begin with neutral phrases of greeting, a little talk about how things are going with the person you are going to invite. After that, go straight to the invitation. Do it unobtrusively and at the same time definitely, after obtaining consent, immediately indicate the exact time and place. Not to allow any coordination on the spot, you must know the exact time and place of the meeting. Immediately after you achieve this, politely say goodbye and end the conversation. Do not drag out the conversation, because this is not your main goal.
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Your mood, tone of voice and manner of conversation should be serious and at the same time cheerful. Shortly before the conversation, use your confidence anchor in order to reach the resource state. Joke as often as possible, but do not overdo it. Create a feeling of lightness and unobtrusiveness.
Useful advice
If it is very important for you whether you can invite or not, you must forget about it during the conversation, otherwise the excitement will not allow you to complete your task.