There are people whom everyone wants to communicate with. They have charisma, are popular in any society. It seems that nature has endowed this gift. But often the ability to communicate comes as a result of a lot of practice.
Instruction manual
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The main thing you need to learn is to select a key for any audience. To want to communicate with you, you must be able to listen to a person, not to interrupt him, not to interfere with the development of his thoughts.
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Feel free to express your opinion. People are interested in learning something new, they will be happy to contact you for advice. Talk to a person openly, do not hide your eyes. Otherwise it will seem that you are cheating.
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Try to understand the meaning of what the interlocutor wants to convey to you. Do not nod your head and insert out of place interjections. Be attentive to the speaker.
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When talking to a person, watch out for emotions. Too sharp waved hands, saliva splashing from the mouth, loud screams can just frighten the interlocutor. Do not get too close to the person during the conversation. If you have not known each other for a long time or have a working relationship, this can cause extremely unpleasant feelings.
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Watch out for the look. Soiled clothes, dirty shoes, bad breath will make the most unpleasant impression on the interlocutor. Even a sensible intelligible dialogue will not be able to interrupt unpleasant emotions caused by an untidy appearance.
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Try to find common topics that would be interesting to you and the other person. When a person talks about what is really important to him, he reveals himself. You have a chance not only to maintain an interesting conversation, but also to get a new friend.
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All comes with experience. Try to talk more with people, do not shy away from dialogue. Very soon you will be able to find an approach to everyone.