No one is immune from conflicts. Their reason may lie in both your interlocutor and yourself. Communication is more productive if there are no negative collisions in its process. Therefore, it is important to develop the ability to stop the development of a situation in time, leading to a quarrel.
Instruction manual
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Quietly avoid exposure to you. In such a situation, it is enough to get rid of the “fulcrum” of the conflict. If the cause of the acute situation is within you, then this is your conflicting perception of the situation. You can get rid of it, but it will take more than one day. Therefore, it is easier to leave the situation, preventing the further development of the conflict.
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Do not respond to brawler attacks. Do not repeat his behavior patterns. Unfortunately, there is a wide category of people who like to pour out their conflicting conflict world on others. They are noticeable in society. Such people like to teach, give advice, etc. They clearly express their dissatisfaction even when there is no reason for this.
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Do not talk with brawlers. They do not accept objective reality, they have their own idea of the world. They assign specific roles to each person. Trying to lead everywhere and everywhere, such people try to impose their worldview, constantly provoking conflict situations in all spheres of life. In no case do not support the topic of dialogue. Remember that this is the road to conflict.
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Never make excuses to such people. The quietest way out of this situation will be your silence, if you fail to quickly find a convincing concise argument. They need to communicate with you to throw out their accumulated discontent. Strip them of this opportunity.
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Avoid questions of scandalous personalities. You can answer the question with a question, but remember that he should not incite a quarrel. If your personal qualities are affected, immediately change the subject.
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Be calm and calm when dealing with such people. Think about any nice things. Remember that entering into communication with them, you run the risk of feeling the whole horror of their contradictions on yourself. To convey their conflict to you, they need your negative reaction.
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Work on yourself. By getting rid of your personal obvious flaws and contradictions, you will get rid of conflicts and those who crave them.