A quarrel in a relationship is quite normal if the couple is able to survive and forget the unpleasant incident. To do this, one of the partners must take the first step towards reconciliation. A strong, reliable, intelligent and loving man will not wait for his woman to stop being offended, but to take matters into her own hands.
Instruction manual
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Let her calm down. Both you and your other half need time to “cool off” after a quarrel. The intensity of emotions will not allow us to think sensibly, and an attempt at reconciliation will turn into an even greater quarrel. But do not wait too long - an unpleasant aftertaste from what happened should not remain in her and your memory for a long time. To do this, try to make peace on the day of the quarrel, if it was small, or after 2-3 days, if you seriously quarreled.
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Search for a reason. Usually two people are to blame for a quarrel, so take on some of the guilt, be aware of your and her mistake so that this does not happen again. Also, understanding the cause of the quarrel is important for choosing a method of reconciliation. If you had a fight because of uncleaned garbage, then it’s easy to make peace, since both of you will understand that this is a trifle. And if the reason is serious, and the fault, moreover, lies more with you, for example, flirting with another woman, you will have to thoroughly approach reconciliation and carefully think over what, how and where you will speak.
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Arrange to meet. Do not apologize via the Internet or in a message, even a phone call is permissible only for arranging a date. You need to apologize at a personal meeting, so that the girl sees a sincere desire to make peace, and not a faceless "sorry" in social networks. The exception is the distance between you. But then try to organize a video call or record a video message. If she does not want to communicate, then act through relatives, friends or acquaintances, but get the meeting by any means.
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Sorry. For the sake of a beloved, one will have to put pride in the background, even if most or even all of the fault lies with her. Your relationship is dear to you, therefore there is nothing shameful in taking the first step - this is not weakness, but wisdom, because you love. Just "sorry" will not be enough, you need to show that you have realized your mistake and do not repeat it. Prepare the words in advance and speak sincerely. If she is guilty, then say: "I'm sorry that we quarreled." So you show that you care.
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Discuss the issue that led to the quarrel. Explain your behavior and dissatisfaction with her actions, but try to express it correctly so that the conversation does not give rise to a new quarrel. Do not leave the problem unattended, find a compromise, because having forgotten it, you will not come to a solution, and the quarrels will continue. Finish the reconciliation with a pleasant surprise so that your beloved stops thinking about the disagreement. Give a small gift, buy flowers, invite to a restaurant, organize a trip to the cinema - the main thing is that you please her and give her your attention and love.