Let's say right away - if you plan to get away from a person who loves you very much, then you will not be able to remain friends with him after that. Perhaps someday in the future, when the pain passes, the time will come for friendship, but not immediately after the break. Another thing is if you both understand that the love relationship between you is unsuccessful. Then this option is possible. But to break them so as to remain friends, you need to wisely.
Instruction manual
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Choose the right time and place to talk and tell your soulmate that you think the relationship doesn’t work out, so you want to end it. Tell your partner how and why you value him, and explain that even the best people in the world may simply not be suitable for each other. Having said all this, be as considerate as possible.
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In order not to seriously damage the pride of your partner, take all the blame. Tell him / her that next to him you feel not up to par (seem like a weakling, unsociable, stupid, etc.), and it bothers you. You can come up with any excuses. The main thing is that then the partner with a smile recalls this conversation, thinking to himself "how weak men are after all!" (as "women are stupid"). The fewer negative memories he has left after breaking up, the more chances you have of remaining friends.
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Promise your partner your help and support in the future. And not only promise, but also do everything that was said. That's what friends do.
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