The life scenario of a person makes us step on the same rake, fall into the same type of unpleasant situation, and tie up unsatisfactory relationships similar to each other. To determine that you are under the influence of a script, you can use three signs.
Three signs will indicate to you that you have come under the influence of a person’s life scenario:
- Repeatability of life events.
- The involuntary nature of the events happening to you.
- A single rigid sequence of thoughts, feelings, actions, which is launched every time in scenario situations.
Repeatability of Life Events
The first sign is easy to notice: every time you "plunge" into the same stories; step on the same rake; enter into identical, similar to each other, destructive relationships with people. For example, you are “lucky” for losers or for bastards, or for dependent weak-willed individuals with puppy eyes. You have changed three partners, but the fourth turned out to be the same! If something constantly happens to you (or another - but the same thing) happens, then you will implement a script program.
Involuntary nature of events
And here we come to the second sign - the involuntaryness of the events taking place with you. By plumbing into the same stories, you are not able to prevent this. Whenever you get involved in another unsatisfactory relationship, you promise yourself: “That's it. More than never!”. However, time passes, and
right: the script scrolls again.