“Yes, he is henpecked, ” “His wife keeps under his heel” - one of the most offensive phrases for a man. Shy and shy women, too spoiled by male devotion, often become tyrants, and men surrender under their pressure, agree on everything. From the side, such men look like real henpecked, but each of them is capable of preventing this.
Instruction manual
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Argue if you do not agree with the opinion of a woman. Sometimes girls take advantage of the fact that they are the weaker sex, and during the decision making they try to arouse pity or even appease their young man with affection. In this case, the dispute is decided in favor of the woman, and the man voluntarily gives in. This form of relationship will not make you henpecked, if it comes to some minor issues, for example, what color curtains to buy in the room. But at the time of a more serious decision, you must learn to defend your opinion. Do not go on swearing and screaming. It is enough to think and give worthy arguments. If your half does not have it, she will give way in a dispute.
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Take the initiative more often. Wives feed their husbands, choose their clothes and determine where to go on vacation. This formula of family relations is not always bad, in many families a woman is the one who makes all decisions. However, sometimes this leads to the fact that the man is no longer able to decide and choose something. Try to offer something more often, to be the initiator of ideas for leisure, shopping. If you do not remain silent, they will listen to your opinion.
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Try not to change the decision. Do not skip from one to another if you have previously spoken out about some situation. Become the master of your words. Keep the promises. If you talk a lot, but do nothing, very soon your words will cease to be taken seriously. To prevent this from happening, try your best to do what you promised.
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No matter how you try not to become a henpecked, do not cross the line, do not become a tyrant. Remember that not only you have the right to your own opinion. Listen to your wife, discuss together possible scenarios in order to make the right decision together. Make compromises sometimes to avoid quarrels. Look for a middle ground, and your family life will be full of respect.