Gaining the sympathy of others is much easier than you expect. Wherever you are, it takes very little effort to please people and quickly create a zone of psychological comfort around you.
Useful tips for those who enjoy being in a welcoming atmosphere.
- Be friendly and open to communication. Do not be afraid to give people your sincere smile. Remember that a smile is the simplest and most universal means for quickly gaining sympathy and establishing communications.
- Try to immediately remember the names of all the people you meet, and always contact them by first name or middle name. Do not forget: the most pleasant sound for a person is the sound of his own name.
- Be attentive to people around you, but not intrusive. Respond adequately to the requests of others, but do not let yourself sit on your neck.
- Keep in mind that the first person to say hello shows more respect for the person, and this is appreciated.
- Listen more than say. Do not interrupt the interlocutor, take an interest in his problems, support and sympathize.
- Try not to demonstrate your status and independence. At the same time, be natural and maintain self-esteem.
- Avoid intrigue and gossip. Keep in mind that neutrality and impartiality are a win-win model of behavior in any situation.
- Avoid untidiness and extravagance in your appearance. Remember the wisdom of the people: take on clothes, and see off the mind.